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Glad to hear Jabwemet's affirmation as well.

The truth is I have, to some or full extent all three of a), b) and c) and I have also seen enough to know how overrated they are.

I know there are some of you guys who are simply curious to know the exact methods, and procedures to follow in order to get a date/FB.

Unfortunately we can't, and won't share those publicly because they're like trade secrets,and frankly you must have your own method, otherwise you'd be following some silly template which frankly makes you look stupid more than anything else.

You must have your own method of operation.

I must admit I'm writing this more for the guys who are struggling to establish any kind of connection with the females, even more so than for those who simply want to ... fuck many women

Most importantly, before you even start your search for a date or a FB, you must believe strongly in your bones that:

a) There are a lot of women out there who feel as unfulfilled as you are, emotionally and/or sexually

b) YOU are capable of fulfilling this void that women have, and that's something no one can help with but yourself, and as long as you have recognized your own limits

If you don't believe these to be true, retreat back into your shell and blame everyone else for your misfortune.

But once you do believe these to be true, there's s much you can do to connect with women, and maybe get a date (yes, there are so many waiting and wishing that guys would try to date them, with or without a, b and/or c)

Make sure you are:

a) Interesting, have a good story to tell. And no, NS stories don't count. Everyone's watched Ah Boys to Men. It doesn't even have to be your own story, but it must be something emotionally engaging. If it's not meaningful to you, it won't be meaningful to anyone you're trying to talk to about it.

b) Passionate about something (helps with a). People are always drawn to somebody passionate about something. If you think about it and realize you have no passions, or nothing that you'd be really happy to achieve....

Now's the time to start thinking...
Nobody cares about the person who's passionate about having a good body cos that's just too clichéd.

Have a dream,an ambition of some sort, and it doesn't even have to be about money cos most people will never ever have a lot of it.

c) Be ambitious

Kinda like B, and ambition does not necessarily have to be about money (again).

Have something you want to achieve don't be shy about saying it if you believe it. Women love it, especially if you're willing to admit your fears about ever achieving them

d) Be honest

Don't pretend not to be looking for sex, especially if that's what you are

I see so many guys trying to be 'nice guys', pretending they aren't in it for sex. Forget it, you're just losers. Women know it, they get propositioned all the time, and they know that what you want i sex, no matter how you deny it.

And believe me, many want it as much as you do They just need to know who they want to give it to.

State what you want, be tasteful about it. (Almost) No woman wants to be think of themselves as being easy

That men should want to fuck as many women as they can does not mean men should should, or can get away with thinking of every woman as a sex object

c) Be well groomed

I think I'd gone over this before . If you can't look in the mirror and say 'I'm happy with how I look today', forget about a woman giving you the time if the day.

These rules are general in nature, but by and large true.

If you can't be love yourself, no one else can.

I'm writing this more for the guys struggling to get a date than the ones just wanting to fuck more women without (paying) because nobody
should have to feel unloved , or unloveable and society still places the burden of action on men.

Within reasonable limits, nobody should need to feel unloved and unwanted